leaning into routine
I have been cocooning. This time of year is hard. Throw some heartbreak into the mix and you have a perfect recipe for cozy nights spent at home eating bowls of cereal for dinner and binging crime docs. Between trying to sort through the day to day tasks of running a human centered business and taking care of my basic needs, I have had more days than not where I feel depleted. Working has been a savior and I am so grateful for what I do. When I am sad, being of service has been a beautiful way to redirect that sadness and turn it into a restorative experience for someone else.
I have been leaning heavily into my routines and rituals. In a time that feels confusing, I am craving feeling grounded and in control. My routine is not complicated - it is centered around making time to move slowly and give myself moments to quiet my mind. This concept of simplicity carries over into all facets of daily life including how I care for my skin.
Mornings are my favorite time of day. I wake up early with no alarm. I hate waking up to an alarm. I go to bed early. Sleep is my friend. I put my favorite cozy sweater on and make my way to the kitchen. First I feed my cat so he stops screaming at me, then I drink a big glass of warm lemon water to flush out the stagnation from the night. Drinking this slightly acidic, warm liquid just feels like I am doing something great for my body first thing. I then light some incense, and go sit or lay on the couch to meditate. Really this is just deep breathing and trying to clear my mind. If I don’t have an invasive thought for one minute I consider that a win. I then make a cup of frothy coffee. I put it in my favorite mug. I really am someone that needs beauty in my life. Whether that is a mug or flowers I don’t deny myself those things.
After that I have a small bite to eat - usually toast with almond butter and banana. Then I go work out. My work outs lately have been non negotiable. I am chasing endorphins. They are saving me from the late winter funk. My favorite work out right now is barre class. It’s hard every single time and I love the community. Plus I feel strong and I love feeling strong, like I could kick some ass if I needed to :)
After that it’s home to shower and get ready for work. I have been taking more time to do my skincare routine lately because it feels like a treat. I always incorporate a nice facial massage at least once a day while I am applying oil. I believe whole heartedly in facial massage for so many reasons - it reduces inflammation, promotes the flow of lymph, releases muscle tension, helps calm the nervous system, tones and tightens, helps clear congestion, and promotes circulation. Someday I will post a video of me doing facial massage on myself. You don’t have to follow any rules or do it a certain way, just put pressure on the places that feel tense (usually the jaw) and let your intuition guide you. It can look funny, that means you’re doing it right :)
Here is my current skincare routine:
MORNING
I have also been adding a few drops of Remedy Oil to my moisturizer at night. I have been testing out a new Botnia product too and I am LOVING it. I can’t talk too much about it but it will be available very soon!
Thanks for reading! As always reach out with any questions or just to say hey anna@oilstudioskincare.com :)